Avoid 7 Attraction Killers

In the last 2 years I've been having an unbelievable success with women. How come? It's been 2 years since now when I looked at my dating life objectively. I noticed that the chemistry, which so many women talk about, wasn't there. I heard about David Wygant Mastery, so I decided to give it a try.

Here is what I've learned why the chemistry hadn't been there. Make sure you are aware of the fact that those information are connected with attraction, not with relationships.

I had no idea what to do. No matter how badly I wanted to kiss a women, I ended up with no kiss at all.

Women can feel what your intentions are. Women know most of the time how you feel. And if you feel uncomfortable, they gey uncomfortable.

I was looking to them for approval. Instead of being completely myself and being ok with it, I was trying to fit their image. My plan was to make them attracted to me by fitting what I thought was expected from me.

If you learn to be comfortable with who you are, that's just perfect. Otherwise you won't get anywhere in a long term, because sooner or later women will see through you and the fact you aren't the person you're trying to project.

I was buying their attention. I really thought I can make them attracted to me simply by buying them drinks and dinners.

I don't say it's wrong to buy women a drink or dinner, I'm saying it's wrong if you do it from a wrong reason. So in that wrong case women will read your behavior as you don't believe there's something about you that is worth their attention.

I was trying too hard be a nice guy. It's weird, but I thought I increase attraction by being a nice guy as much as I could.

Well, women do like nice guys, unfortunately they aren't attracted to them. The sad and known truth is that women feel strong attraction for the bad guys.

I was giving away my power. I couldn't help myself, but I thought if I let them to make a decision about what to do, I was doing the right thinking. Or by letting them to choose where we will go next. Or by agreeing with anything they said, even though I didn't agree with it.

I didn't realize how strong are our roles. We as men are meant to act like problem solvers, hunters, protectors and leaders. And you need to project those qualities in your personality, so women can feel safe and protected.

I was sharing my feelings too early. A couple of times I made a mistake by sharing my feelings too early. I thought this would show how sensitive I am. And women would think how touchy it is.

It's ok to share your feelings with a woman you're in a relationship with. It's also ok if you share your feelings with a woman you're a friend with. But it's not fine to share your feelings too early with a woman you want to attract.

I had no idea how attraction works for women. I didn't realize there might be a different attraction process for women.

Men are mainly focused on looks. For women it's men's personality. This difference is the reason why you can't see too much couples where a handsome man would be with a average woman.

I haven't done any of those mistakes for the past 2 years.

About the Author:
I've changed my dating life and so can you with David Wygant Mastery Series.