If you want to connect with women you have to know how to talk to women
The progression from meeting a woman to having sex goes through 3 distinct phases..... Attraction Comfort Seduction
connection and forming a bond with a woman is part of the comfort phase so we can safely assume if you are trying to make her feel comfortable and connect with her that she IS attracted to you (otherwise you're going to end up in the dreaded friends zone!)
ok, so lets get down to learning how to connect with women.
fact#1 women connect on an emotional level, men connect on a logical level
have you ever tried connecting with a woman about something technical? something like, the efficiency of a gas motor? The intricacies of financial planning? if you did, then I'm willing to bet you never connected with her. The examples above are predicated on logic and most women simply don't get the emotional stimulation they CRAVE when you engage them like that.
you need to stimulate her emotions!
Tip#1 connect with her using vivid storytelling
(Once again, I'm assuming she is attracted to you already) Tell her a story about your past or where you hope to be in the future, but instead of just listing the details, describe the emotions going on in your body and how you felt at the time. women RESPOND to this type of storytelling because you are evoking her emotions!
example i wanted to become a doctor so that I can do pro-Bono work for sick children in Asia.
turn that into this....
You know, when I saw all those malnourished children on TV it really hit me hard, I To think of all the privileges we take for granted, and yet some children die from the common cold in 3rd world countries. That's why i chose to be a doctor, so I could help those who cant help themselves.
Tip#2 listen
yeah, I know that's the same old thing you've always been told but it's especially true when you're connecting with her. If she starts to talk about something deep you need to listen to what she's saying and get her to extract her emotions. This will seem obvious but its important , ask follow-ups. She may talk about her brother running away from home, but don't immediately cut the conversation and move on.
Tip#3 build trust
before you can progress to sex you MUST have trust. So how do you build trust? One of the best ways to build trust is by sharing something about you that may be hard to talk about. One of the biggest misconceptions about success with women is that you can't cry in front of a woman, which is entirely untrue. In fact it SKYROCKETS the emotional chemistry. Dont be the "macho"douche bag who acts tough when its time to slow things down and really build some comfort.
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Wait, there is a 4th and vitally important tip on connecting with women. You can read about the 4th tip at http://www.puahub.com/connect-with-women.html